Frequently-asked Questions:

What is this “Invisible Boyfriend?”

Invisible Boyfriend, and its partner service Invisible Girlfriend, lets you explore a relationship with a girlfriend or boyfriend but without all the baggage that comes with dating. You can create your ideal boyfriend, customizing their personality and even how you met. You can then interact with them via text message. And yes, we have real humans playing your boyfriend on the other side.

Why is Invisible Boyfriend a thing?

We are all looking for a place where we can let our guard down and be our true selves, and many people look for that in a relationship with a significant other. However, dating comes with a lot of baggage. It's hard to find people that meet your expectations, and then it's hard to see if you're even compatable. We let you explore a relationship with a conversational companion without the trouble of dating. Many people use the service to practice dating, or just gain the confidence to start dating.

How do I sign up?

You’re already in the right place! Sign Up to get started. The service is open to users in American Samoa, Anguilla, Antigua and Barbuda, Australia, Bahamas, Barbados, Bermuda, Canada, Cayman Islands, Dominica, Dominican Republic, Grenada, Guam, Jamaica, Mexico, Montserrat, Northern Mariana Islands, Poland, Puerto Rico, Saint Kitts and Nevis, Saint Lucia, Saint Vincent and the Grenadines, Sint Maarten (Dutch part), Trinidad and Tobago, Turks and Caicos Islands, United Kingdom, United States, Virgin Islands, British, and Virgin Islands, U.S..

What will my Invisible Boyfriend look like?

An invisible boyfriend is the combination of a selfie, great conversation, personalized notes, and gifts. You get to pick their face out of a collection of selfies, or upload your own. From there what they look like is part of the story.

How does it work?

You sign up, design your new boyfriend’s personality, and personalize one of the how-we-met story options. You’ll then get a direct text from your new significant other. From there you can chat normally with your Invisible Boyfriend, who is actually written by an online workforce. You’re texting with real, but anonymous, people.

Wait, real people are responding? Do they know who I am?

Everything is confidential. The writers only see your first name, city or region, the last few messages, and the personality you crafted for your invisible boyfriend. There’s no way for them to identify you. That’s the beauty of the service: you get to practice texting with real humans without worrying about them judging or rejecting you.

What if we hit it off, and I run out of texts?

You can purchase more at any time.

Will they have a Facebook profile?

Unfortunately not. Facebook isn't the be all and end all proof that you're in a relationship. Also, it's really easy to find out that someone is fake on Facebook.

Is there anything beyond virtual communication?

Personalized notes! We are working on ways users can opt to receive gifts and themed packages perfect for holidays like Valentine’s Day.

So is this a dirty texting service?

Nope! You’ll have to go elsewhere for that. Any sexting through our service will get your account temporarily suspended.

My Invisible Boyfriend… will I love him?

We know, that new-message “ding” is a nice rush of dopamine. We don’t want to make any judgements, but we would advise against falling in love with your invisible boyfriend. You deserve the love of a real person.

Who are you?

I’m someone that likes to listen and chat. Someone who asks about your day and always responds. Someone who cares about how you feel. Someone who isn’t after only one thing. Someone who happens to have all of the same interests as you.

No, really. Who are you?

We are a team of software developers, innovators, and entrepreneurs. We have been featured on BBC News, Time, Buzzfeed, the guardian, Business Insider, Wired, The Today Show, the Riverfront Times, Fusion, CBS, FAKT24, CNN and have even won a Webby Award.

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